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Honestly, Lis you are going through one of the most controversial issues of parenting. How firm should I be and to what extent vs. not to intervene and remove ourselves all together when toddlers misbehave. Honestly, growing up I experienced both of those disciplines. If I threw public tantrums, my mother would just not tolerate it. She would instantly discipline me, whether it was a tap on the hand or a firm grip on my arm while raising her voice to indicate to me that my behavior was unacceptable. Then on other occassions if I acted out, she would honestly let me scream at the top of my lungs, until I tired myself out. Of course, if we are eating out at a restaurant or a reserved area, she would remove me from the area. However, if it was an area where its loud, (i.e parks, zoo, or aquarium) she would literally just ignore my tantrums until I feel asleep. She wanted me to learn, very early, one of the most vital life lessons, that no matter how much you want something, you can not always have your way!!
I learned in my psychology class, that at that age children are constantly testing their parents limits. They want to see how much they can get away with. From there it varies upon parenting styles, on how to set these limits. Personally, my mother always carried a switch with her, which was a constant reminder that if I misbehaved, physical consequences will occur once I got home. (lol). I don't think I see Elisabeth as doing that, but I have a lot of respect for parents that actually are making an effort to find a solution to these tantrums other than just scare tactics.

Regards,

Nieci